6 Rules to be Charismatic

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1. Make People Feel Important (SHR Method) Your formula to boost charisma: Seen • Give eye contact • Offer a specific compliment

Heard • Ask good questions • Be interested, not interesting Remembered • Follow up • Remember name(s) • Recall something you discussed


2. Pause Before Speaking (30% Rule) You have enough time to reply than you think. Wait for 2 sec first. Pause in Speaking + Eye Contact = Confidence


3. Hone Your Body Language (7-38-55 Rule) People will like/dislike your communication based on: • 7% words • 38% tonality and face • 55% body language

Good body Gesture and posture, Proper Eye Contact, smile and you are there..... You will be awesome.


4. Use Humor

"A study of the top TED Talks found humor as a key ingredient. People are attracted to those who make them feel good (aided by humor). (by : Sources)" 3 proven tips to be funnier: • Give a surprising answer • Care more than someone predicted • Be more specific than necessary

5. Don’t Complain or Gossip Ever. Nobody likes to hear complaining. So why do we do it ourselves? Separately, when you talk bad about others, other will suppose if you talk bad about them too. Just don’t do it.

6. The Shadow Rule Don’t hide parts of yourself to be accepted by others. Think about your favorite movie or TV character. They have at least one weakness. You wouldn’t like them as much otherwise. Imperfection is humanizing. Own your flaws, be magnetic.

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good Write. New Way to follow
November 2, 2022 at 11:28 PM
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